Eagles' Wings Ministries International
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THE POWER OF GIVING
published on 4 Dec, 2018

The amazing and great paradox of life is that the more you give of yourself, your time, your energy and even your substance, the more you receive or get blessed. This simply means we all need to be givers in life. Humility is a common factor among givers and all great people. Humble people are also givers. A humble heart is usually sensitive to the needs and feelings of others.

When we are givers, we support, help and are concerned about the well-being of others. True givers and humble people will often subordinate their own needs to those of others.

Actually, morale and productivity are usually highest in societies or communities where people show a high degree of concern for each other. All of us appreciate people who show sincere interest in our well-being. Humility makes whatever we do or give meaningful.

Humility is such an important characteristic in the life of a giver, because it gives meaning and authenticity to giving. People who are full of themselves, no matter how successful they are, do not add value to society. Living for self never brings satisfaction or fulfilment. It actually throws life out of focus. One of the sure signs of greatness is a humble spirit.

Humble individuals can neither be put down nor exalted; they usually remain the same person under all circumstances. Humility is a sustainer of the upward motion in life. Farlex’s dictionary defines humility as; “The state or quality of being humble; freedom from pride and arrogance; lowliness of mind, a modest estimate of one’s own worth; a sense of one’s own unworthiness through imperfection and sinfulness.” Unfortunately today’s society does not regard humility as a virtue; we are so self-centred. Humble people usually find it easy to embrace the spirit of generosity.

Generosity is a powerful law of life. As a matter of fact, giving affects every area of life. Giving makes us open doors of blessings for others. We must not just give in order to get, but rather to bless others.

When we give to bless, we will be blessed. Proverbs 11:24 says; “One man gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.” When we give to others, we activate the law of generosity that provokes the blessing. Mother Theresa once said; “We may not be able to give to everyone, but we can give to one.” Mitch Albom said; “The way you get meaning into life is to devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.”

The book of Galatians in the Holy Bible declares; “Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people...” (Galatians 6:10). We must maximize all the opportunities to do good and give to others. Two of the most important things we can give to others are love and forgiveness. Most people are suffering from rejection and lack of love. One of the root causes of violence and crime in society is lack of love and acceptance, which many of us did not receive fully during our formation years.

Love is a healer. When we give love, we heal others mentally and emotionally. Love brings acceptance, affirmation and restores identity. Love covers a multitude of sins and restores individuals, families, societies, communities and nations. When we give love, we are also at the same time releasing healing to others. 

As we give love, we must also give forgiveness to those we are angry with. Forgiveness is giving up resentment against someone who has hurt us. It is also giving up our right to get even no matter what has been done to us. It is in fact surrendering my right to hurt back someone who has hurt me. Unforgiveness is the wilful refusal to give up our resentment and the right to get even with someone we believe hurt us.

It is when we believe that someone must pay for the pain they caused in our lives. The best gift you could ever give to your children, husband, wife, father, mother, colleague or school mate is forgiveness. Families, society and the nation cannot function well with bitter and angry people. Forgiveness is the lubricant that makes families, communities, businesses and nations function smoothly. When we give forgiveness we make our homes, workplaces, schools, companies and the nation functional.

Mark Twain once said; “Forgiveness is the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” The grease or oil of forgiving love will always reduce the friction and salve the emotional and mental irritations in homes, businesses, offices, government, churches and communities. The wasps of memories may surely fly once in a while, but forgiveness is the power that draws out their sting. As we give our time, energy and money to others, let us always remember to also give love and forgiveness. A giving people make a better nation.

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